Contributed By McCarthy Hansen & Company LLP
In Canada, the federal Divorce Act governs decision-making responsibility over children for individuals who are married and divorcing/divorced. Provincial legislation governs decision-making responsibility for all other couples.
Under Section 2(1) of the Divorce Act, the authority to make decisions for a child is referred to as “decision-making responsibility” and includes responsibility for making significant decisions in relation to the child’s health, education, culture, language, religion, spirituality, and significant extracurricular activities.
Equivalent provisions are contained in provincial legislation. For instance:
Note that “decision-making responsibility” was previously referred to as “custody” prior to amendments to the Divorce Act in 2021.
In Canada, a birth mother is generally automatically recognised as a parent and does not need to meet any additional requirements to obtain decision-making responsibility.
An important exception is surrogacy. See 1.4 Requirements for Non-Genetic Parents.
A father’s rights and responsibilities, including decision-making responsibility, flow from his parentage status. The process for establishing paternity varies by province. In general, a male person will be presumed to be a legal parent in the following circumstances:
In some provinces, a father may also have to prove guardianship in addition to parentage to obtain decision-making responsibility. Parents are generally, but not always, guardians. For example, in Alberta and British Columbia, a father who is not already a guardian may need to satisfy guardianship criteria by proving he regularly cares for the child or intends to do so. In Manitoba, if the parents never cohabited after the child’s birth, the parent with whom the child resides is the only parent with decision-making responsibility (Section 36 of the Manitoba Family Law Act).
Federal Legislation – The Divorce Act
The Divorce Act, which governs spouses who are divorced or divorcing, requires a non-genetic parent to demonstrate that he or she “stands in the place of a parent or intends to stand in the place of a parent” to obtain decision-making responsibility (Section 16.1(1)(b)). This may include a stepparent or a relative, such as a grandparent, who has played a parental role in the child’s life.
Courts will consider the following factors in determining if someone stands in the place of a parent (Chartier v Chartier, [1999] 1 S.C.R. 242):
The non-genetic person will also need to show that it is in the child’s best interests for decision-making responsibility to be awarded to them.
Provincial Legislation
Provincial legislation governs unmarried spouses and married spouses who are separated but not divorcing/divorced. Therefore, the rules for a non-genetic parent to obtain decision-making responsibility vary by province.
In some provinces, such as British Columbia, the key question is whether a non-genetic parent is already a legal parent or guardian. If a non-genetic parent is already legally recognised as a parent or guardian, decision-making responsibility automatically flows. Legal recognition of the non-genetic parent’s status may first be required before any allocation of decision-making responsibility.
In other provinces, like Ontario, there is no requirement that someone be a parent to be given decision-making responsibility. Anyone may apply to the court for decision-making responsibility, and the court will merely consider the child’s best interests.
A biological connection is generally treated as relevant but not decisive, especially in cases where the non-genetic parent has clearly acted in a parental role. As in all cases, the non-genetic parent must satisfy the court that awarding them decision-making responsibility is in the child’s best interests.
Surrogacy/Assisted Reproductive Technology
In Canada, parentage in assisted reproduction cases is a matter of provincial law. Each province has its own statutory framework to establish parentage in assisted reproduction arrangements, which allows for intended parents to be recognised as the child’s legal parents from birth or shortly after birth.
Once parentage is legally established, decision-making responsibility follows the ordinary parental framework in that province rather than being treated as a special exception.
See 1.7 Adoption for adoptive parents.
See 1.3 Requirements for Fathers; in most provinces, the father will be presumed to be the legal parent of the child and will automatically obtain decision-making responsibility if married to the mother at the point of conception or birth.
In Canada, the law applies equally to parents in a same-sex relationship and parents in an opposite-sex relationship.
Adoption is regulated provincially rather than federally. Adoptive parents must first obtain an adoption order under the relevant provincial legislation. For instance:
Generally, in Alberta, British Columbia, Manitoba, and Saskatchewan, an adoption made according to the law of another jurisdiction is treated as if it had been made under the law of that province.
Requirements to become an adoptive parent include:
Once a person becomes an adoptive parent, they automatically assume decision-making responsibility for the child.
In Canada, the federal Divorce Act governs child relocation for parents who were married and are divorcing. For non-married couples/parents, provincial legislation applies. The relocation provisions in provincial legislation closely correspond to the relocation provisions in the Divorce Act. Indeed, in Ontario’s Children’s Law Reform Act, the relocation provisions are identical.
In Canadian law, child relocation is defined as a change in the place of residence of a child of the marriage or a person who has parenting time or decision-making responsibility – or who has a pending application for a parenting order – that is likely to have a significant impact on the child’s relationship with:
Consent – Persons with Parenting Time and/or Decision-Making
Under Section 16.9 of the Divorce Act, a person who has parenting time or decision-making responsibility with respect to a child and who intends to relocate with the child must notify any other person who has parenting time, decision-making responsibility, or contact with the child of their intention to relocate in the form of a “Notice of Relocation”.
The Notice of Relocation must be provided at least 60 days prior to the expected date of the proposed relocation. It must set out the expected date of relocation, the address of the new place of residence, contact information for the moving parent/child, and a proposal as to how parenting time, decision-making responsibility, or contact will be exercised by the non-moving party if relocation is permitted.
A person with parenting time or decision-making responsibility with a child who receives a Notice of Relocation must object within 30 days if they oppose the relocation. If they do not object within this timeframe by filing an objection or by starting an application, and there is no order prohibiting the relocation, the parent who wishes to move is permitted to relocate with the child (see Section 16.91 of the Divorce Act).
If a person with parenting time or decision-making responsibility objects to the proposed relocation, the relocation cannot proceed immediately.
The parties may first attempt to resolve the issue through negotiation or mediation. This could occur privately or through counsel. However, if the parties are unable to reach an agreement, the matter may ultimately proceed to trial, where the court will decide whether the proposed relocation is in the child’s “best interests” and should be permitted.
In deciding whether to permit the proposed relocation, Canadian courts will consider the factors enumerated in Sections 16 and 16.92 of the Divorce Act (for non-married parents in Ontario, identical provisions are located in Sections 24 and 39.4 of the Children’s Law Reform Act).
Notably, the court is not primarily concerned with fairness as between the parents. The ultimate question is always whether the relocation is in the best interests of the child, which is “a fact-specific and highly discretionary decision” (N.M v M.M, 2026 ONSC 2766 at para 10).
Section 16(3) – Best Interests of the Child Factors
These factors include:
Section 16.92(1) - Additional Relocation Factors
Additional relocation factors include:
While the above factors provide helpful guidance to the courts, they are not intended to be exhaustive, “[n]or are they a checklist to be scored, with the ‘highest score’ prevailing. Rather, they require a holistic assessment of the child, the child’s needs, and the caregiving and relational context in which the child lives” (Shah v Romero, 2026 ONCJ 55 at para 128).
As mentioned in 2.3.1 Factors Determining an Application for Relocation, Section 16(3)(e) of the Divorce Act specifically considers “the child’s views and preferences, giving due weight to the child’s age and maturity, unless they cannot be ascertained”. While the wishes and preferences of the child must be considered in relocation cases, their wishes are not determinative, as the court must conduct a holistic assessment of all the relevant factors. In assigning weight to the significance of a child’s wishes and feelings, the Ontario Court of Appeal in Decaen v Decaen, 2013 ONCA 218 considered the following factors at paragraph 42:
Courts may ascertain a child’s wishes and preferences in several ways, including the following:
See 2.3.2 Wishes and Feelings of the Child; the age and maturity of the child are two factors the court can consider when weighing the child’s wishes and preferences about the relocation.
In determining the best interests of the child under Section 16(3)(b) of the Divorce Act, courts must consider “the nature and strength of the child’s relationship with each spouse, each of the child’s siblings and grandparents, and any other person who plays an important role in the child’s life”.
Courts have held that a child’s meaningful and close relationships with siblings, cousins, and friends is an important factor to consider in deciding whether to permit relocation.
Loss of contact with the left-behind parent is an important consideration in relocation applications. However, the weight given to this factor can depend significantly on the history of care and parenting for the child. In cases where there is a history of shared parenting/roughly equal parenting time and the child has a close and meaningful relationship with both parents, loss of contact could be a serious factor weighing against relocation. However, in cases where there is a history of one parent being the primary caregiver, and the child does not have a close relationship with the other parent, loss of contact with the non-moving parent may not be weighed as heavily.
Under Section 16.92(1)(f) of the Divorce Act, the court must consider the “reasonableness of the proposal of the person who intends to relocate the child to vary the exercise of parenting time, decision-making responsibility or contact, taking into consideration, among other things, the location of the new place of residence and the travel expenses”.
Courts have typically considered the following factors as weighing in favour of relocation:
Courts have considered the following factors as weighing against relocation:
It is difficult to estimate the cost associated with bringing a court application for child relocation, as several factors can impact the cost, including:
Furthermore, in Canada, a party that loses their legal case may be required to pay a portion of the successful party’s legal fees. While a costs award is discretionary and not automatic, this factor may ultimately increase the costs of a relocation proceeding.
Unfortunately, there is no fixed statutory deadline requiring Canadian courts to decide a child relocation application within a specified timeframe. The length of the process depends on several factors, including the urgency of the proposed move, whether parties can reach an agreement, the complexity of the issues, and the court’s schedule.
If the proposed relocation is imminent and delaying would cause prejudice, a parent could bring an urgent motion. However, they would need to demonstrate genuine urgency and that delaying would likely result in serious prejudice or harm.
In some cases, a parent might also seek an interim (temporary) relocation order pending the final determination of their case. However, the court will consider whether the temporary move would effectively determine the outcome of the case before a full trial on the merits. In Ontario, if the court does not think a temporary relocation is appropriate, they may still direct that the matter proceed to trial on an expedited basis. The time a relocation case ultimately takes to get to trial varies across Canada depending on court resources and backlogs.
In relocation applications, courts are not automatically more “sympathetic” to an application by a primary caregiver or a left-behind parent. However, Section 16.93 of the Divorce Act does contain onus provisions which create certain presumptions in relocation matters when there is an order, arbitral award, or agreement that provides for parenting time, and the parties have “substantially complied” with it.
Substantially Equal Parenting Time
If the order, arbitral award, or agreement provides that a child spend “substantially equal” time in the care of each party, the party who intends to relocate has the burden of proving the relocation would be in the best interests of the child: “The fundamental premise is that where the parent who is the predominant primary caregiver of the child proposes to relocate, it is usually in the child’s best interests to relocate with that parent since this will maintain continuity of care and stability in the child’s life… This is the logic that justifies requiring the non-relocating parent to rebut the presumption in favour of relocation by showing that the relocation is not in the child’s best interests and should not be permitted”. (Angelillo v Mughal, 2025 ONCA 769 at para 17).
Vast Majority Parenting Time
On the other hand, if the order, arbitral award, or agreement provides that a child spends the “vast majority” of their time in the care of the party who intends to relocate, the party opposing the relocation has the burden of proving it would not be in the best interests of the child. “Vast majority” has been interpreted by some courts as approximately 75% of the time or more with one parent.
Other Cases
In all other cases (ie, when there is no order, arbitral award or agreement dealing with parenting time OR when the parties have not substantially complied with the order, arbitral award or agreement), both parties have the burden of proving whether the relocation is in the best interests of the child. The court can also disregard the onus provisions if the parenting order is an interim order.
Temporary Relocation
On a motion for temporary relocation before trial, courts have held that the onus is likely on the parent seeking to relocate on an interim basis. Justice Kraft in Louafi v Schneider, 2025 ONSC 3687 at para 64 noted that: “In my view, when a parent seeks to relocate with the children on an interim basis, that parent must demonstrate why he/she believes a relocation should be permitted before a Trial, since the relocating parent asks the Court to make such a determination without the benefit of a complete record, viva voce evidence or the opportunity for the evidence to be tested”.
In Canada, the Divorce Act distinguishes between a “relocation” and a “change of residence”. A relocation is a type of change in residence that would have a significant impact on the child’s relationship with another person who has parenting time, decision-making responsibility, or contact. Although “change in residence” is not defined in the Divorce Act, a move that does not significantly impair a child’s relationship with the other party will generally be considered a change in residence. While a change of residence still requires notice, the requirements are considerably less onerous (see Section 16.8 of the Divorce Act).
Whether a move is a relocation or change in residence is a threshold issue. If the parties disagree on the characterisation of the move, a judge will need to determine the issue at the outset of the case, as it will dictate the applicable legal framework and notice requirements.
The analysis is not limited to the distance of the move or the associated travel time. Rather, courts tend to focus on the effect of the move on the child’s relationship with the other party, the impact on the non-moving parent’s parenting time, and how the commute would affect the quality of the non-relocating parent’s relationship with the child.
If a parent who relocates with a child fails to obtain the relevant consent as outlined in 2.1 Whose Consent is Required for Relocation? and 2.2 Relocation Without Full Consent, the child will be found to have been “wrongfully removed”. A wrongful removal, also known as an “abduction”, is a serious matter that engages both domestic and international legal frameworks, and may result in court-ordered repatriation of the child.
Furthermore, under Sections 281 to 283 of the Canadian Criminal Code, it is a federal criminal offence to abduct a child under the age of 14 years. The offence is punishable by a fine or up to ten years in prison.
If a child is abducted or is suspected to have been abducted from Canada, the contacts below can help:
The process for having a child returned to Canada depends on whether the country to which the child was taken is a signatory of the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction (Hague Convention).
Hague Convention Countries
Canada is a signatory to the Hague Convention. Therefore, where the child has been removed from Canada to another country that is a signatory without consent, the following procedure applies.
Each signatory country to the Hague Convention must have a Central Authority. The Central Authority for each province is as follows:
The contact information for the Central Authorities in Canada can be found on the Hague Conference on Private International Law’s website.
If the country to which the child is brought is a signatory to the Hague Convention, the left-behind parent may apply for the child’s return to Canada. The left-behind parent, or counsel acting on their behalf, should contact the relevant Central Authority (see above) to commence a Hague Application. The relevant Central Authority is the province in which the child was habitually resident before the removal. The Central Authority will assess whether the Hague Convention applies, and if so, forward the application for the child’s return to the Central Authority in the foreign jurisdiction where the child is being kept.
Once the foreign Central Authority receives the Hague application, they work with the local Central Authority to try and obtain legal counsel for the left-behind parent. Legal counsel in the foreign jurisdiction will commence a court proceeding in the foreign court for the return of the child. The foreign court will then consider the following elements to determine whether to order the return of the child:
If the above elements are established, the court must generally order the child’s return unless one of the following exceptions is met:
After commencing a Hague Application through the relevant Central Authority, the left-behind parent may also seek relief from the Canadian courts. The applicant parent may bring an urgent motion in the relevant provincial court to prevent further relocation of the child and support enforcement of any eventual return order when the child is back in Canada.
Non-Hague Convention Countries
Where the child is taken to a country that is not a party to the Hague Convention, the Hague Convention’s return mechanism is unavailable. Therefore, the left-behind parent will generally have to rely on the foreign country’s domestic family law and court system or diplomatic efforts. This will almost always involve retaining local counsel in the foreign country where the child is located. Because of this, outcomes in non-Hague Convention cases tend to be more variable and slower.
Canada is a signatory to the Hague Convention. Therefore, a Canadian court would follow the process outlined in 3.2 Steps Taken to Return Abducted Children in deciding whether to order the return of a child.
Canadian courts will use a “hybrid approach” to determine a child’s habitual residence (Office of the Children’s Lawyer v Balev, 2018 SCC 16). This approach requires considering all relevant factors, including the child’s links to both countries (school, friends, language, extended family, community involvement), the circumstances of the move (temporary v indefinite, reasons for relocation), and parental intentions, without any single factor dominating the analysis. The inquiry is fact-specific, and the list of potentially relevant factors is not closed. There are no rigid rules, formulas, or presumptions.
The Supreme Court of Canada has noted that a child’s habitual residence can change while they are staying with one parent under time-limited consent from the other, provided the overall circumstances show that the child has become integrated in a new environment (Office of the Children’s Lawyer v Balev, 2018 SCC 16).
Courts in Canada apply the principle that the Hague Convention’s default is immediate return and treat the exceptions listed in 3.2 Steps Taken to Return Abducted Children as narrow and exceptional.
Free and Subsidised Legal Advice
Articles 7(g) and 25 of the Hague Convention provide that contracting states should facilitate the provision of legal assistance and advice to left-behind parents.
The Central Authorities in Canada help left-behind parents by:
Each province has its own legal aid scheme, which may provide free or subsidised counsel in Hague Convention-related matters. However, the financial eligibility criteria for legal aid tend to be very strict across provinces and applicants must usually be significantly low-income to qualify for services.
Average Costs and Timeline for Applications Under the Hague Convention
Although the Hague Convention calls for resolution within six weeks, Canadian Hague applications may take several months from commencement to final decision, with longer timelines in highly contested cases or where appeals are pursued. However, they are typically expedited and heard sooner than other family law matters.
Hague applications are resource-intensive and commonly cost tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees and related expenses, even in simple cases resolved without an appeal. Many provinces may require the losing party to pay costs. Additionally, courts have the discretionary authority to order the abducting parent to pay “necessary expenses” incurred by or on behalf of the applicant, including travel expenses, costs of locating the child, legal representation, and the costs of returning the child. However, applicants may need to fund these significant costs up front and should be advised that cost recovery is discretionary.
Procedure and Principles for Return to a Non-Hague Convention Country
Where a child has been taken from a country that is not a party to the Hague Convention, there is no Hague Convention-based return mechanism. In this case, the left-behind parent will need to file an application for the return of the child in the relevant provincial court. The matter will proceed under the relevant provincial legislation rather than under the Hague Convention.
In Ontario, for example, an urgent motion for the child’s immediate return would be brought under the Children’s Law Reform Act (CLRA). The court may grant remedies such as:
Provincial statutes generally echo the Hague Convention principle and favour returning disputes to the child’s place of habitual residence, but they operate purely as a matter of domestic law when the destination state is not a party to the Hague Convention. Canadian courts give significant weight to habitual residence in this context, but they are more cautious about ordering a child’s return to a non-Hague Convention country where they cannot assume that the foreign courts will decide the custody dispute according to familiar “best interests” standards or offer comparable protections.
A key distinction between a Hague application and an application under the CLRA (or analogous legislation) is the level of judicial discretion. Under the Hague Convention, courts start from a strong presumption of immediate return and treat exceptions as narrow. Under the CLRA, Ontario courts have greater discretion both in deciding whether to assume jurisdiction and in determining whether a return order is in the child’s best interests. They are not required to presume that non-signatory states provide adequate safeguards for returned children. In practical terms, the threshold for refusing to order a child’s return to a non-Hague Convention country is lower than the threshold for refusing return to another Hague Convention country.
This is not applicable as Canada is a signatory to the Hague Convention.
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